I will start off with Happy valentines day everyone!!! My fiance` got me a edible arrangements fruit basket.On friday we went out to eat a friendly's, then to Jilly's Bar and we met some pretty chill couple. we made friends :) I love him..sooo sweet!!! Helping me with my weight loss ( i weigh 211) lost 4lbs so far :) ( i go to the gym 2-3x a week) didn't get me chocolates my man is awesome. I bought our son a spiderman shirt& box of chocolates, a v-day cookie and some sweethearts. I am supposed to clean the house today. I will in a few hrs. I've got 4hrs. then i need to shower and get some HW done with Nick when he gets home and then get ready for Nick's doc appointment. Cooking dinner, watching tv or playing toys with nick& Larry, maybe a board game. Shower for Nick and then bedtime. That's our schedule.
I'm a SAHM. I take care of our cat Kit Kat who's a tortiseshell and is 5 1/2 mths. We all live together. We just moved in a month ago. Me & larry have been together 1yr and 7 months it will be on the 22nd. We are currently TTC our first child together. My 2nd child. Larry loves Nick as his own and is a great daddy. :) Nick is 7 yrs old and both me and Larry are 28 WE both went to the same HS and were aquantices. Now we are in Love and happy. :) I lived on my own for a yr after moving out of my parents house before me and Larry moved into our new apt together. We got a special and right across from my old apt building. We didn't have to rent a uhaul and larry's parent's borrowed hand carts from their jobs to help us move.
I'm italian& german. I have an associates in Early childhood education. Was a teacher 5 yrs, babysitter for 2 yrs for a hampton's working couple & babysat my nephews for a few yrs. I enjoy being a SAHM and we are looking forward to having another child in the house, yes they'll be 7 yrs+ apart but it's worth it, b/c our son will be more understanding and he is mostly independant, that will be helpful and potty trained, sleeps in his own bed, he is in 1st grade. i get happy when he needs me to do stuff for him, b/c i feel needed. my baby is growing up toofast. when i look at his baby photos i miss those times i said omg i wish he'd grow fast and i was so busy, i had student teaching, college, work and taking care of a baby. thank god for my mom , being a single parent wasn't easy.
Nick's father wasn't there at all, he visited ever 6 mths then he moved to FL and it was 2 yrs before he saw him again, it's sad, but after awhile we got used to it and just didn't bother, he saw him once last yr and we haven't heard from him since. He pays child support whenever and i don't rely on it to help me get through.We recieve disability so we are grateful the gov't helps us with finical help with Nick having asthma, the cost of his nebulizer, meds for the nebulizer would be hard for me, i can't even find a job and recently i had a majior depression episode. i finally got out of and now i'm functioning well. he gets sick a lot due to his weak immune system part our our syndrome Ehlers Danlos syndrome. He is at risk for bipolar, since i have it and so does Nick's father. We havea lot of medical challenges but we don't let it bother us, it's not about the quantity of life, it's the quality.
I can't marry Larry b/c we'd lose disability and then we'd be screwed b/c Larry doesn't make enough to support us with just his money. we make close to 3,000 with our combined income. So we are comfortable living together not married and we are going to wait 5 yrs see if Larry makes 5-6 more dollars an hr and then we'll get married b/c he'll be able to support us on just his income. We are grateful for Larry, he takes good care of us and treats us like gold. He's the best fiance& father a woman & child could have.
I've written a lot and now i'm going to go. hope i make some friends soon. :) Tareena
